In my experience the reason why my FemDom marriage has lasted so long is because I had a slave who believed in the following mission statement :
“There is no greater joy when one can serve his mistress knowing that it is his duty in life to make her happy and do this out of love, not fear, for his mistress. That love is seen even in non married relationships where the slave voluntarily submits and enjoys his servitude to his mistress“.
Ever since that day when I saw him in court defending a client and won I knew that he would serve me but it was not easy as I had to repair the damage his domineering mom had done to him. I found inside him a potential to accept a kinder, gentler form of domination and a kind many Dommes still cannot wrap their heads around for some strange idiotic reason. I realized that if I did not move fast that I would lose him as he was ready to become a dominant male and it took many months until he was once again ensnared in my web. Even after marriage I had a 5-year fight with his mom over who would dominate until he stepped in and told his mother “TO SHOVE IT UP HER ASS.”
Now what has transpired in the 36 years of our marriage?
1) I never punished unless necessary contrary to the “let’s break the male” school of thought which a lot of Dommes still stupidly cling to.
2) I made sure that he was aware of the new forms of testing that he would go through to toughen him up although his toughness came from Vietnam in 1965 – 1967 and the air force reserve 1975-1980. He willingly accepted the new punishments that would push him to the edge of the envelope.
3) I laid down the rules that he would do as I said except in 2 areas:
a) Whenever he was preparing for a case I would not bother him,
b) If there was an area where his expertise outshone mine then I agreed to his handling of the situation.
4) When Justine and Rebecca were born he agreed that, when it was time, he would serve as a guinea pig for them to learn how to dominate a man and have him serve them. He did this without a murmur of complaint or resistance, which reaffirmed my decision to marry and enslave him. My girls are now 34 and 33 respectively and can handle and control any man.
5) I laid down a schedule of servitude, which he followed faithfully including everything from baths to housecleaning to cooking to massages to breakfast in bed.
6) As our marriage grew it was evident that he once again fitted nicely into the role of an obedient yet intelligent slave……one who was loyal and devoted to me even when I was offered money for him which I refused as he was a slave beyond price.
7) Now, in our 36nd year of marriage, we have become closer and have refined the roles of Domme and slave to the point where each knows what the other is capable of doing.
I wish every Domme had a slave like mine as their marriages would be even better…….you do not have to break a slave’s will to get him to serve you as I am living proof of it and if you use the God given gift of feminine wiles then any man can be enslaved no matter how difficult he is. The key is getting inside his head and using his weaknesses and strengths to ensure his servitude to you and once you have him fully in your grasp the rest is easy.
Have we had disputes, of course we have, but the difference is he disagrees with me in a respectful and reverential way and many times his logic and perception even surprises me making him a more valuable slave.
Does he show me and other women subservience…….YES HE DOES….as many women express envy at seeing him kneel and kiss their boots and gloved hands then mine.
Lastly, I would never sell or trade my slave christopher as he is too valuable and it would take too long to break in another slave who would be as good as him….that is why he is my slave emeritus and I am proud to be his Domme.
Mistress Peggy Sue
In regards to my three younger brothers…their wives have now been taking lessons from me and are Domming their husbands as well as sending their sons and daughters to learn subservience and Domination respectively.
What was my wedding like? Well very unusual to say the least and shocking to many of the people attending and this will explain what happened:
I wished that all weddings could have been like mine when I came down the aisle dressed in a strapless gown with long white gloves to the shoulder then handing the bouquet to my sister I took chris’s hands and handcuffed them in front then taking the bouquet back and facing the minister said “you can start now” in front of the congregation. I told chris that the cuffs were to stay on during the ceremony and the receiving line and picture taking until dinner.
The joy on my face and my sisters, the shock on the minister’s face and some of the older women and the resigned look on chris’s face as he knew what his fate was to be and the look of disdain on his mom’s face. Well everything went off without a hitch especially when it came to saying good-bye.
The power I felt was indescribable when we saw the guests below as we were at the top of the stairs where I threw the bouquet then bringing Chris into view. Turning him around, at the top of the stairs, they saw chris’s hands had been cuffed behind him then having chris face the crowd they saw his ballgag.
I raised my voice thrusting a black leather gloved fist into the air said, “A new era has come upon this union of 2 people for this union will be called ‘A FEMALE DOMINATED MARRIAGE'”
With that I led him away as a lot of the younger women cheered and applauded while the older generation look in disapproval and his mom looked at me with anger.
This is my lifestyle and it is a lifestyle that has been proven to be successful…..I believe that if all marriages were like mine there would be fewer domestic conflicts. As Allen Redmond said :
Mistress Peggy Sue’s brand of female supremacy embodies the wisest philosophies of female supremacy. It absolutely exalts women to the levels of human gods, yet allows males, in complete subjection, to have the freedom to use their talents and gifts to exalt women to their rightful places in life, which is to be the ruling class. It is slavery for the submissive male with a wonderful purpose, which is to glorify females and to exalt them to their destinies.
All honor and glory to Peggy Sue.
She is a very, very wise Female Supremacist. She allows her male slaves to use their abilities to empower women. Also, though she is supremely above us, she genuinely cares for us. She is a loving, wonderful Mistress. She is so very wise and for that I am hers as she has accepted me. I do not deserve such an honour.
The reason I write about your ability to lead many people, or something like a ‘nation’ is because you know what it takes to raise a generation of children into a real Matriarchal Society because that is EXACTLY what you did. And your male is your complete slave, yet he lived out his great and awesome potential. If your model would be followed, the insanity of FemDom would go away and the realization of Female Supremacy would be lived out in practical daily life. In a sense, Ma’am, you raised a “nation of three” (two daughters, one husband/slave) during your lifetime so far. It’s just a shame your talents, vision and abilities haven’t been used so far on a much, much bigger scale, such as an entire nation.
Think if all households in America raised their boys and girls like you raised your children. The world we lived in would truly be female dominated in a real sense without all of the craziness.
Unfortunately for yourself, you were born about 100 years too early. You are the kind of woman, born in the future, probably who could administer the affairs of a small nation or state, if you know what I mean or, to be more accurate, be an effective administrator or political-type over many, many people. You know how to properly raise children, train men to be slaves, etc. it’s just that society isn’t as far along as you.
The reason I write about your ability to lead many people, or something like a ‘nation’ is because you know what it takes to raise a generation of children into a real Matriarchal Society because that is EXACTLY what you did. And your male is your complete slave, yet he lived out his great and awesome potential. If your model would be followed, the insanity of FemDom would go away and the realization of Female Supremacy would be lived out in practical daily life. In a sense, Ma’am, you raised a “nation of three” (two daughters, one husband/slave) during your lifetime so far. It’s just a shame your talents, vision and abilities haven’t been used so far on a much, much bigger scale, such as an entire nation.
Think if all households in America raised their boys and girls like you raised your children. The world we lived in would truly be female dominated in a real sense without all of the craziness. If you ask me, some of these so-called dommes seem more like prostitutes than dominant females because they seem to always want and need the money of males.
Not that having a household where the woman stays at home cannot be Matriarchal. I’m just speaking about how I see some so-called dommes act like TV preachers almost begging for money.
You are what I would call a ruling class domme of the Highest Order.
How do I put it…a Woman in the midst of little girls. The Highest Order. Visionary. A woman with the intellectual capacity to lead millions if they were ready to lead. I could see you as president of a nation. You may laugh at what I am saying, but I see that capability in you.
You have tremendous vision for the long-term management of society. You see the big picture.
So, Dear Goddess, as you can see, you are not the problem. The problem is there are too many people who are short sighted, too sexually driven, and too many women who still don’t know how to manage and handle the power they are beginning to realize they possess. You understand that tremendous power and are matured in how to handle it and use it.
All honor and glory to Mistress Peggy Sue.
Allen Raymond
#1 by Mistress Peggy Sue on February 20th, 2012
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To all those who posted on my site:
In the process of bettering the site and eliminating the spam and the HTML’s all the good comments got eliminated as well as the registrations.
I apologize for not seeing this happening and desire to have all those who had posted here to post again.
One thing I ask for and it was very frustrating to say the least. For those who post and ask me to contact them could they PLEASE have a WORKING e-mail.
Thanking you in advance I remain
Your Mistress and Domme
Mistress Peggy Sue
#2 by MissEJGA on March 30th, 2012
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please tell Me this website is still active.
#3 by Mistress Peggy Sue on April 5th, 2012
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This site is still active Mistress EJGA
Mistress Peggy Sue
#4 by Mistress Peggy Sue on April 9th, 2012
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I received several requests to put my brand of domination in an e-book and this I have done. You will find it in the following links:
http://editions.gynarchy.org/?p=1000 for the e-book.
http://editions.gynarchy.org/?p=919 or http://www.lulu.com/product/paperback/guide-to-female-supremacy/18912713 for the paperback
I felt that it was about time for those who have honoured me and those who want to know more about me……can now read instead of asking.
For the e-book…….. (relatively easy : 1=) suscribe – 2) login – 3) download – 4) claim the password – 5) read),
Goddess/Mistress Peggy Sue
#5 by victor on April 16th, 2012
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Absolutely fascinating reading Mistress.
What a lucky, lucky man Your husband is.
Kind regards,
A very envious, victor wiseman.
#6 by her kleaningmaid on July 22nd, 2013
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DEAR MISTRESS PEGGY SUE, RECENTLY IT WAS BROUGHT TO MY ATTENTION BY SEVERAL OF MY male FRIENDS WHO ADMITTED THAT WOMEN CAN USE THE male PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL “ADDICTION” TO PORN, AS A POWERFUL ADVANTAGE TO “SUBJUGATE MALES” YOUNG AND OLD. ALL WOMEN KNOW THAT THE AVERAGE male is ADDICTED TO SOME TYPE OF PORN AND ALMOST EVERY husband AT SOME POINT AND TIME HAS BEEN CAUGHT RED HANDED BY THEIR WIVES VIEWING VARIOUS PORNO SITES. BUT THE MOST POPULAR SITES THAT males VISIT ON THE INTERNET ARE THE B&D, S&M, FEMDOM PORN. BUT FEMDOM SITES ARE THE MOST POPULAR AMONG US MALES. FEMDOM PORN SITES HAVE EXPOSED TO THE WORLD, THE INNERMOST MALE DESIRE TO BE DOMINATED BY THE SUPERIOR FEMALE. AS A male, I PERSONALLY HAVE FELT THIS OBSESSION ABOUT DOMINANT WOMEN SINCE THE AGE OF 9-YEARS OLD. BUT, IS IT NOT ODD THAT MOSTLY males HAVE CREATED THESE FEMDOM PORN SITES, SHOWING FEMALES EXCLUSIVELY IN CONTROL OF ALL MALES. IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT, WE MALES ARE TECHNICALLY AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY ENSLAVING OURSELVES AS males TO SUPERIOR AND DOMINANT WOMEN. OBVIOUSLY THE ALERT AND INTELLINGENT WOMEN OF TODAY’S SOCIETY THROUGH THE ENRICHMENT OF FEMALE EMPOWERMENT CAN SURMISE THAT THE male GENDER HIDES HIS MACHO, PERSONA OVER “HIS TRUE SUBMISSIVE NATURE”. ALL WOMEN MUST CONTINUE TO EXPOSE THE TRUE SUBMISSIVE NATURE OF THE male. SUPERIORITY AND DOMINANCE MUST TAKE “HER RIGHTFUL PLACE” IN SOCIETY. WHY DO males SECRETLY ENJOY MASTURBATING TO IMAGES OF WOMEN ON THESE FEMDOM SITES AS THEY SEE males being dressed in maids uniform, females ball busting, females trampling males, females performing golden showers on and in the mouth of males, males in chasity belts, on leash and collar by the female, women using strap-ons on males, males in maid uniforms, males in doghouses, ponyboys, males on all four, males as furniture and used as ashtrays and spittoons, female shaving males, verbal and public humiliation of males by females, male infantilism, male cbt, males being brutally face slapped by women, females whipping males, kissing female boots and shoes, and subjecting to scat eating and the list goes on and on. DOES THIS NOT SHOW THE WORLD THE INFERIORITY OF THE male psyche AND THE SUPERIORITY OF THE FEMALES IN CHARGE !! JUST RECENTLY I WAS WITH A male FRIEND OF MINE, WHO ASKED ME TO HELP PAINT SEVERAL ROOMS IN THE HOUSE THAT BELONGS TO HIS WIFE. HIS WIFE PICKED ALL OF THE PAINT COLORS FOR EACH ROOM, BUT THE INTERESTING PART WAS WHEN HIS WIFE STOOD BOLDLY BEHIND US AND WAS GIVING US INSTRUCTIONS ON HOW TO PAINT, INCLUDING HOW TO USE THE DIFFERENT BRUSHES, OTHER PAINTING TOOLS NEEDED, HOW TO BRUSH STROKE THE PAINT AND MANY OTHER THINGS. SHE WAS VERY DOMINANT WHEN TELLING US WHEN TO TAKE A BREAK, OR THAT WE WERE TAKING TO LONG AND NOT LETTING US HAVE BEER TO DRINK UNTIL THE JOB WAS DONE TO HER SATISFACTION. I COULD CLEARLY SEE THAT HER HUSBAND WAS UNDER HER CONTROL AND HE CATERED TO HER REQUESTS IN MILITARY STYLE OBEDIENCE. I MUST ADMIT WHILE PAINTING WITH MY FRIEND I WAS IN A MENTAL STATE OF “male SUBMISSIVE EUPHORIA” AS HIS WIFE KNEW SHE WAS IN CONTROL OVER TWO SUBMISSIVE MALES. I FELT PROUD AND HAPPY TO BE SERVING HER. MISTRESS PEGGY SUE, I CANNOT EXPRESS THE OVERWHELMING ELATION I FELT, AS THIS WOMAN WAS SO COMFORTABLE AND NATURAL AT DOMINATING HER TWO males. IT IS GREAT TO SEE THAT MORE AND MORE WOMEN ARE USING THEIR NATURAL DOMINANCE TO SHOW males “THEIR PLACE” ..IN ANOTHER BLOG SENT EARLIER THAT I WORK IN A FEMALE DOMINATED ENVIRONMENT, AND THE WOMEN BOTH YOUNG AND OLD, BOLDLY ACKNOWLEDGE THAT THE WOMEN ARE IN CHARGE !! HOW CAN males NOT SEE THEIR APPOINTED DESTINY. SO THANK YOU VERY MUCH MISTRESS PEGGY SUE FOR ALLOWING ME TO SHARE THE VERY REAL LIFE AND FUTURE FOR males.
#7 by her kleaningmaid on July 24th, 2013
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DEAR MISTRESS PEGGY SUE, I JUST WANTED TO COMPLIMENT YOU, ON THIS PICTURE THAT I AM ADMIRING, WHERE YOU APPEAR TO BE STANDING IN YOUR NICELY LANDSCAPED BACKYARD. YOU ARE STANDING WITH YOUR HANDS ON YOUR HIPS IN A DOMINATE POSTURE. YOU LOOK SO YOUNG, SEXY AND BEAUTIFUL DRESSED IN A BLACK LEATHER JACKET, BLACK LEATHER GLOVES, BLACK LEATHER SKIRT, AND BLACK LEATHER BOOTS !! YOU ARE ONE “HOT” LOOKING FEMALE SUPREMACIST !!! WHAT male IN HIS RIGHT STATE OF MIND, WOULD NOT WANT TO BE GROVELING AND DROOLING AT YOUR FEET IN THIS PICTURE !! I AS SO JEALOUS OF YOUR HUSBAND RIGHT NOW, HE IS TRULY ONE LUCKY AND FORTUNATE male TO BE OWNED BY YOU. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND THE GOOD LOOKS……..ANOTHER MALE SUBMISSIVE KNOWN AS …HER KLEANINGMAID……
#8 by Mistress Peggy Sue on July 24th, 2013
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I have never been in favour of cockold and in 35 years of Femdom marriage have never forced my slave emeritus husband to perform such an act.
Have your Domme wife conract me as i can point out to her the benefits of having someone like you and also it would be a good idea if dhe read my book as my femDom philosophy has been successful on the internet with 1300+ online submissives.
Tell her i do not and have never followed nor subscribed to mainstream domination that is portrayed on the internet.
Mistress Peggy Sue
#9 by Mistress Peggy Sue on July 24th, 2013
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I thank you for the compliments her kleaningmaid
Mistress Peggy Sue
#10 by MistressPeggySue on September 29th, 2014
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I want to thank all of those who registered on my blog. Now I would like to request that all of the registrants comment on my blog…..the good and the improvements needed.
Mistress Peggy Sue
#11 by houstonsub on May 7th, 2015
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Mistress Peggy Sue,
I am a big admirer of you and your philosophies. What you have accomplished is truly amazing. I am a submissive male and look forward to serving under a Female supremacist in a loving Female Authority relationship and very much want a Female supremacist wedding. Have you heard of other weddings that were complete and absolute in that regard?
Thanks