In my experience the reason why my FemDom marriage has lasted so long is because I had a slave who believed in the following mission statement :
There is no greater joy when one can serve his mistress knowing that it is his duty in life to make her happy and do this out of love, not fear, for his mistress. That love is seen even in non married relationships where the slave voluntarily submits and enjoys his servitude to his mistress“.

Ever since that day when I saw him in court defending a client and won I knew that he would serve me but it was not easy as I had to repair the damage his domineering mom had done to him. I found inside him a potential to accept a kinder, gentler form of domination and a kind many Dommes still cannot wrap their heads around for some strange idiotic reason. I realized that if I did not move fast that I would lose him as he was ready to become a dominant male and it took many months until he was once again ensnared in my web. Even after marriage I had a 5-year fight with his mom over who would dominate until he stepped in and told his mother “TO SHOVE IT UP HER ASS.”

My Enslaved Husband ChristopherNow what has transpired in the 36 years of our marriage?

1) I never punished unless necessary contrary to the “let’s break the male” school of thought which a lot of Dommes still stupidly cling to.
2) I made sure that he was aware of the new forms of testing that he would go through to toughen him up although his toughness came from Vietnam in 1965 – 1967 and the air force reserve 1975-1980. He willingly accepted the new punishments that would push him to the edge of the envelope.
3) I laid down the rules that he would do as I said except in 2 areas:
a) Whenever he was preparing for a case I would not bother him,
b) If there was an area where his expertise outshone mine then I agreed to his handling of the situation.
Justine4) When Justine and Rebecca were born he agreed that, when it was time, he would serve as a guinea pig for them to learn how to dominate a man and have him serve them. He did this without a murmur of complaint or resistance,  which reaffirmed my decision to marry and enslave him. My girls are now 34 and 33 respectively and can handle and control any man.
5) I laid down a schedule of servitude, which he followed faithfully including everything from baths to housecleaning to cooking to massages to breakfast in bed.

6) As our marriage grew it was evident that he once again fitted nicely into the role of an obedient yet intelligent slave……one who was loyal and devoted to me even when I was offered money for him which I refused as he was a slave beyond price.
7) Now, in our 36nd year of marriage, we have become closer and have refined the roles of Domme and slave to the point where each knows what the other is capable of doing.

I wish every Domme had a slave like mine as their marriages would be even better…….you do not have to break a slave’s will to get him to serve you as I am living proof of it and if you use the God given gift of feminine wiles then any man can be enslaved no matter how difficult he is. The key is getting inside his head and using his weaknesses and strengths to ensure his servitude to you and once you have him fully in your grasp the rest is easy.

Have we had disputes, of course we have, but the difference is he disagrees with me in a respectful and reverential way and many times his logic and perception even surprises me making him a more valuable slave.

Does he show me and other women subservience…….YES HE DOES….as many women express envy at seeing him kneel and kiss their boots and gloved hands then mine.

Lastly, I would never sell or trade my slave christopher as he is too valuable and it would take too long to break in another slave who would be as good as him….that is why he is my slave emeritus and I am proud to be his Domme.

Mistress Peggy Sue

In regards to my three younger brothers…their wives have now been taking lessons from me and are Domming their husbands as well as sending their sons and daughters to learn subservience and Domination respectively.

What was my wedding like? Well very unusual to say the least and shocking to many of the people attending and this will explain what happened:

I wished that all weddings could have been like mine when I came down the aisle dressed in a strapless gown with long white gloves to the shoulder then handing the bouquet to my sister I took chris’s hands and handcuffed them in front then taking the bouquet back and facing the minister said “you can start now” in front of the congregation. I told chris that the cuffs were to stay on during the ceremony and the receiving line and picture taking until dinner.

The joy on my face and my sisters, the shock on the minister’s face and some of the older women and the resigned look on chris’s face as he knew what his fate was to be and the look of disdain on his mom’s face. Well everything went off without a hitch especially when it came to saying good-bye.Kathleen

The power I felt was indescribable when we saw the guests below as we were at the top of the stairs where I threw the bouquet then bringing Chris into view. Turning him around, at the top of the stairs, they saw chris’s hands had been cuffed behind him then having chris face the crowd they saw his ballgag.

I raised my voice thrusting a black leather gloved fist into the air said, “A new era has come upon this union of 2 people for this union will be called ‘A FEMALE DOMINATED MARRIAGE’”

With that I led him away as a lot of the younger women cheered and applauded while the older generation look in disapproval and his mom looked at me with anger.

This is my lifestyle and it is a lifestyle that has been proven to be successful…..I believe that if all marriages were like mine there would be fewer domestic conflicts. As Allen Redmond said :

Mistress Peggy Sue’s brand of female supremacy embodies the wisest philosophies of female supremacy. It absolutely exalts women to the levels of human gods, yet allows males, in complete subjection, to have the freedom to use their talents and gifts to exalt women to their rightful places in life, which is to be the ruling class. It is slavery for the submissive male with a wonderful purpose, which is to glorify females and to exalt them to their destinies.

All honor and glory to Peggy Sue.

She is a very, very wise Female Supremacist. She allows her male slaves to use their abilities to empower women. Also, though she is supremely above us, she genuinely cares for us. She is a loving, wonderful Mistress. She is so very wise and for that I am hers as she has accepted me. I do not deserve such an honour.
The reason I write about your ability to lead many people, or something like a ‘nation’ is because you know what it takes to raise a generation of children into a real Matriarchal Society because that is EXACTLY what you did. And your male is your complete slave, yet he lived out his great and awesome potential. If your model would be followed, the insanity of FemDom would go away and the realization of Female Supremacy would be lived out in practical daily life. In a sense, Ma’am, you raised a “nation of three” (two daughters, one husband/slave) during your lifetime so far. It’s just a shame your talents, vision and abilities haven’t been used so far on a much, much bigger scale, such as an entire nation.
Think if all households in America raised their boys and girls like you raised your children. The world we lived in would truly be female dominated in a real sense without all of the craziness.
Unfortunately for yourself, you were born about 100 years too early. You are the kind of woman, born in the future, probably who could administer the affairs of a small nation or state, if you know what I mean or, to be more accurate, be an effective administrator or political-type over many, many people. You know how to properly raise children, train men to be slaves, etc. it’s just that society isn’t as far along as you.
The reason I write about your ability to lead many people, or something like a ‘nation’ is because you know what it takes to raise a generation of children into a real Matriarchal Society because that is EXACTLY what you did. And your male is your complete slave, yet he lived out his great and awesome potential. If your model would be followed, the insanity of FemDom would go away and the realization of Female Supremacy would be lived out in practical daily life. In a sense, Ma’am, you raised a “nation of three” (two daughters, one husband/slave) during your lifetime so far. It’s just a shame your talents, vision and abilities haven’t been used so far on a much, much bigger scale, such as an entire nation.
Think if all households in America raised their boys and girls like you raised your children. The world we lived in would truly be female dominated in a real sense without all of the craziness. If you ask me, some of these so-called dommes seem more like prostitutes than dominant females because they seem to always want and need the money of males.
Not that having a household where the woman stays at home cannot be Matriarchal. I’m just speaking about how I see some so-called dommes act like TV preachers almost begging for money.
You are what I would call a ruling class domme of the Highest Order.
How do I put it…a Woman in the midst of little girls. The Highest Order. Visionary. A woman with the intellectual capacity to lead millions if they were ready to lead. I could see you as president of a nation. You may laugh at what I am saying, but I see that capability in you.
You have tremendous vision for the long-term management of society. You see the big picture.
So, Dear Goddess, as you can see, you are not the problem. The problem is there are too many people who are short sighted, too sexually driven, and too many women who still don’t know how to manage and handle the power they are beginning to realize they possess. You understand that tremendous power and are matured in how to handle it and use it.
All honor and glory to Mistress Peggy Sue.

Allen Raymond